Voluntary assisted dying (VAD) can be a tricky topic to tackle. This is not an information piece. For that please seek out the laws in your state as each state has different laws. This is an opinion piece.
VAD offers a choice to end one’s life with conscious dignity after a number of conditions have been confirmed by medical professionals. Up until recent years this choice did not exist and people suffering terminal and debilitating medical conditions often lived the end of their lives with little, if any, quality of life.
Enter VAD and the tables are turned. So, bright side? How so?
I’ve been privy to heartwarming and overwhelmingly positive stories of VAD experiences. An elderly female relative was terminally ill. The family was asked to gather for the farewell which was timed to allow people to travel for the event. The farewell was planned as a private party with nice food and French champagne. Stories were shared, photos were taken, and goodbyes were said. The mood was positive, the experience beautiful. The passing was at home, in comfort, peaceful, dignified and a sense of closure prevailed.
As a funeral celebrant I cast absolutely no judgement, and I respect the choice that people make when going down the VAD path. It is a brave choice. A choice to be honoured.
If you or somebody close to you is considering VAD and you wish to discuss the funeral service or the writing of the eulogy, please reach out on magda@withheart.com.au or 0422670716 and I’d be happy to chat – no obligation, no cost.